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Unconscious Mutterings Week 273 – Tuesday Edition

  • Posted on April 22, 2008 at 12:55 pm

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  1. Questioning :: authority
  2. Immunity :: from prosecution
  3. Online dating :: been there, done that.
  4. Calcium :: supplement
  5. Dressing :: with gravy
  6. Bucket :: seats
  7. Stain :: out
  8. Advanced :: Calculus
  9. Dramatic :: license
  10. Self-medication :: is good in small doses

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  • Posted on April 20, 2008 at 6:31 am

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  • Posted on April 19, 2008 at 6:34 am

Just the Kick in the Pants I needed

  • Posted on April 16, 2008 at 11:27 am

Monday night, I took advantage of my small-town library. (I’m all about the free events, y’all.) After my mile-long walk of shame at lunchtime, there was no way I was going to jack this up. I checked the library’s webpage, went back and pulled the newspaper article, confirmed that I’d written the correct information in my planner, and arrived five minutes early (and also? Making me the first to arrive).

Jackie Stanley, the CEO (Chief Encouragement Officer) was at the Kernersville Library with her new book, Jackie Stanley’s Dictionary of Encouragement. She was engaging, articulate, and my favorite kind of motivational: blunt, intense, and to the point.

She spoke a bit about how she went from Family Law to CEO, and then began her main message: You are so much more than what happens to you. You’re not the breakup – the breakup is happening to you. It sucks, it’s difficult, but it is NOT YOU.

It’s becoming easier for me to take “global” messages like her presentation and wrap them around my situation – specifically to take more of an outside view of My Sainted Mama’s moments. They’re painful, but they’re honestly and sincerely not about me. I just happen to be her designated target.

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  • Posted on April 16, 2008 at 6:36 am

Maya and Me: Why attention to detail is important

  • Posted on April 14, 2008 at 10:57 pm

I woke up late this morning. I had a 1030 appointment in Winston, and I woke up at 845. (Not ONE WORD about laziness – I worked and then had homework after I got home, thankyouverymuch!) As I blazed my way through the pages of the paper (like Esbee, I read the dead tree version as I breakfast) one thing attracted my attention in The Week Ahead section of the Local News section. I looked at the clock, squealed and grabbed my camera and things, getting to my appointment only five minutes late. At the end of my appointment, I celebrated joyously – I’d gotten done just in time to haul myself to Salem College, park at the edge of the campus, and walk the half-mile to Corpening Plaza. In the cold and rain.

The closer I got to the square, the more I realized that things just.weren’t.right. Where is the teeming sea of humanity? Balloons? Dancers? Wait…what day is today?

I called My Sainted Mama and asked her to read the blurb to me again. As she read it, she started laughing and well…it took a while for her to regain control of herself. And then I sloooowly made my way back to school, picked up my registration card for next semester, and went home.

Birthday Celebration

Winston-Salem will have an artsy celebration of the 80th birthday of one of its most-famous residents

SATURDAY

A birthday party for Maya Angelou will begin at 1 p.m. at Corpening Plaza.

The party will feature performances by the N.C. Black Repertory Company and students from the N.C. School of the Arts, Winston-Salem State University and Wake Forest University.

And, of course, there will be cake and punch and a reading of one of Angelou’s most celebrated poems, “Phenomenal Woman.”

Mmmm. Subconscious.

  • Posted on April 14, 2008 at 12:23 am

Unconscious Mutterings | Archives

  1. Silence :: comfortable
  2. Wall :: of sound
  3. Killed :: the radio star
  4. Wishful :: thinking
  5. Poodle :: oodles and skoodles, but no poodles.
  6. Sullen :: and mouthy
  7. Do not disturb :: unless you want WAY too much information
  8. Philadephia :: PA
  9. Anticipation :: it makes me late
  10. Sidewalk :: chalk

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  • Posted on April 12, 2008 at 6:36 am

Frustrations abundant, and promises forgotten.

  • Posted on April 10, 2008 at 10:17 am

He signed an acknowledgement of paternity at birth.

His name is on the birth certificate.

The child is his father remade, in stature and build (and temperment).

Even though he has signed and acknowledged, he still has the legal right to request DNA testing.

A court date had been scheduled in December 2007, before Christmas, in another state. Obviously I was not able to attend this hearing. I have had no further information from this other state – I don’t know if it was continued, if he requested said DNA testing, what-have-you.

When we were discussing The End of our relationship, he said he would probably stay out of The Child’s life until the age of five. At that point (when The Child is fully capable of expressing needs and wants) he would be interested in becoming a part of The Child’s life.

The Child will be seven at the end of this month.

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  • Posted on April 9, 2008 at 6:37 am