To the men whose genetic contribution has made my life so much more rich: I thank you. While your lack of involvement in our lives bothers me at times, it is very much balanced by the knowledge that I don’t have to make excuses for why you’re late or didn’t show up. If it were within my ability to drop the child support cases, I would – but my children’s current medical coverage requires that I cooperate with Child Support Enforcement.
Upon rereading, I do realize that some of you will think this is a bitter post. Quite the opposite, in fact. I am really, truly, honestly grateful.