I thought I was done with the Daddygate/trapping thing (see yesterday’s post), but I’m not. It makes absolutely NO sense to me, and it pisses me off to no end.
If you are dating a woman with children and you KNOW she has children, would you not automatically assume that if you hook up/live together/get married that you would be “Daddy”? Maybe not *their* Daddy, but Daddy of the house (Man of the house, but with legos).
If I were without children, *maybe* I could see the whole “got pregnant to trap me” thing. No, on second thought, that still makes no sense to me. Marriage never EVER entered the equation. Been there, done that, AIN’T gonna do it again.
At absolutely no point did I say “Hey, marry me, I had your kid.” I’ll admit – on overwhelming days, I do bitch to my friends about needing a Daddy so I can catch a break for a few hours and soak in a hot bathtub without tub crayons and pee in the bathwater. Never said it to him – don’t want him. Decided that somewhere between Thanksgiving and Christmas of 2002 (when he stopped talking to me). Sorry, call me weird–but if a guy stops speaking to you, that’s a pretty surefire sign that he’s not interested. At least to me it is.
I just don’t get it. ah, fuck it.
On this day..
- Dear Spammers: - 2006
- So why are you fearing my logic? - 2005
- Stone post III - Epilogue - 2004
- Stone blogging - Day II (Random Thoughts) - 2004
- The moon disappeared! - 2003
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